This weekend was good... NO, GREAT!
I enjoyed Saturday, especially leaving the driveway on my motorcycle for a day in the sun, and waving goodbye to my hubby as he was out in the front lawn, cutting the grass as instructed. There was a twinge of guilt, and I expect I'll continue to have that from time to time, but having him looking all masculine, out there cutting the grass at my instructions, added to the vibration of my motorcycle... let's just say I was one Happy Wife. LOL!!
Sunday, he took care of the chores, and errand running, while I had "girls day out" with Mom and Daughter, having a nice lunch, and getting pedicures. Then, that night, he took me out for a very nice dinner, and a GREAT Sarah McLaughlin concert at Red Rocks. When we finally got home, we were both too tired for any play, but I did tell him that he definately earned a reward with all his "good behavior" this weekend, and told him to tell me what he would like as a reward. He told me he didn't know. I told him if he didn't pick something, he could be rewarded with a popsicle in his ass while getting a spanking. LOL He came up with a good reward pretty quick. He said he wants to go to Mon Chalet (http://www.mon-chalet.com). We both really enjoy visiting here, so I think I'll be planning that soon.
Now, we've got two BUSY weeks to get the house ready for a farewell party for our military-bound daughter. I will help, of course, but my dear hubby will be busy every day, every night with chores & projects so that I won't be embarrassed when our friends and family come to our house to celebrate my daughter's future. It will be a good test, I think, for our "trial period" for this WLM gig.
I think some play, some orgasm denial, of course with lots of edging, is in order for this next phase. Perhaps, if the party goes well, I'll allow him some release. I know that there are a lot of folks in FLRs that believe that a chaste hubby is a good hubby, but I don't know... I mean, I can see going for a week or so, maybe even 3 or 4, but see, I *like* seeing my hubby cum. I like how much he likes cumming inside me. It makes me feel hot & sexy. I like his (my) cock, and how it feels inside me. So, no... I don't think I'll be making him refrain THAT much. Plus, my hubby is bi, and I REALLY like MMF 3somes, so, yea.... I see orgasms in his future - but, under MY orders, when I want, when I am ready. :)
Another thing I want to try, after our daughter leaves home, is to start having him cook dinner for me in the nude. Of course, this won't work as well when he's grilling, but still. I ran the idea past him, and I think he got hard just thinking about it. I think that will be fun!
I am concerned, that I need to make sure that hubby always knows that I love and respect him, while we are finding our way through this WLM. I never want him to resent me, or feel like things aren't "fair" or like I see him as any less of a man than he is - I love and adore him, and I need to make sure that he always knows that, even when he's being submissive and subservient. How do you make that happen?